Gay Mixer in Puerto Vallarta

I had the best time at Casa Cupula last night at Out & About Puerto Vallarta Magazine’s Gay Mixer. I was met at the door by owner/publisher Jerry Jones and his whole crew there to greet everyone, photograph the absolutely gorgeous surroundings overlooking the city, Bay of Banderas and every now and again, a naked butt in one of the hot tubs. Go-go dancers lined the stage, then maneuvered their way through the 125-men-strong crowd, standing room only, earning tips and kisses. Jordon Carnegie arrived to mingle and promote his fantastic show opening this coming Sunday at The Palm Cabaret, Hedwig and the Angry Inch. He brought his up-and-coming costar Haley, singer, dancer, and actress from Grand Rapids, Michigan. Haley’s first trip outside the United States, she joined me as the only other straight female in the bunch. We had an eyeful.

The networking that goes on at these Gay Mixers is exceptional. I saw a few realtors, entertainers, and producers, and, even better, I didn’t recognize 95% of the people in the crowd—a lot of new people in town – Anglos and Mexicans.

I met up with Marcos Ruiz, Marketing Director, who I have not seen for years, and Zack who said the Bistro Gallery would be open soon—another reason to return to this piece of Gay Heaven at the top of the city.

Owner Don Pickens, who I did not see last night, unfortunately, has added substantially to Casa Cupula, making it bigger, better, more beautiful, and clearly, from the crowd and the staff, dearly loved by all.

Casa Cupula opened some 23 years ago in a space I used to go dancing—the first gay hotel in Vallarta. With the exception of a couple of weekly events (NKD Pool Party, Saturdays, for one), they are open and welcoming to everyone. The food is raved about, and I am looking forward to their Big Gay Brunch held every Sunday at the Pool Club in this spectacular jungle setting.

Thank you to Jerry Jones, who always takes the time to make sure I meet owners and local movers and shakers who populate the crowds at his Gay Mixers. Oh, and for the eye candy.